I watched too many chick flicks yesterday

I have a very good friend who I talk to pretty much every day.  Our topics cover pretty much everything, but mostly have to do with things that annoy us, and dealing with the opposite sex.  One day he shot me a text saying "Do girls really believe ALL of the shit guys say to them?".  My quick response was, "yes. yes we do".  But that is not entirely true.  We want to believe everything you say to us, some girls just believe it and some  girls have become jaded and don't believe a word (understandably so). I personally would prefer to believe you and be wrong, than not believe you and be wrong.  The problem I have noticed is that guys don't really want to tell us whats really going on in their heads, maybe because they don't want to hurt us, or maybe cause they want to keep us around for sex, or connections, or a free lunch.... And most girls just want companionship so we believe it when you say things like "I really dig hanging out with you".  After numerous conversations with my friend, I have come to the realization that "I really dig hanging out with you", does NOT mean "I am really into you", it actually means,  I like fucking you, but in no way do I want to talk to you everyday, introduce you to my parents, or introduce you to people as my "girlfriend".  I am not trying to sound angry about this, this is just the way you communicate, almost on an instinctual level.  And I am VERY aware that girls have their evil ways just as much as you do.  I do not hate men, I love men, I am just trying to work my way to understanding you guys, so I don't waste my time with someone who doesn't really want me around.  See when I am not into a guy, I don't say, "Hey you know what? I just don't dig you". No I do the whole fucked up, "I am going to ignore your phone calls and texts, and avoid places you would be, until you go away"  Which is probably not very nice or straight forward, but hey its just my style.  But I am big girl, so, if you are one of those guys who doesn't want to hurt me, go right ahead!  Because well I am going to figure it out eventually and then I'll be hurt AND humiliated for believing a sham, SO, I'll take the plane old blow of you not digging me and skip out on the feeling like a schmo for believing you. thanks. come back soon.